Tuesday, May 30

Don't Blame MySpace

One of my friends posted this in a bulletin on my MySpace page. I'm not sure who wrote it originally, but I'm reposting it verbatim.

Body: Anybody happen to catch Nightline last night on ABC? In case you didn't, one of the hot topics discussed was MySpace. It is no secret to anyone who reads the newspaper or watches the 6 o'clock news that MySpace has been in the limelight because of "sexual predators" trying to "abduct and corrupt" the youth of the world. To this I say bullshit! I see dozens of profiles a day showing 14 year old girls dressed like sluts, wearing four inches of make up and 32 layers of eyeliner, displaying their age as 18 years old and profile lines stating "Oh, I'm So Sexy" or "Hey There, Wanna Check Up On It?" Come the fuck on! The youth of today's world are already corrupt enough due to the undying need to be "older" than they really are. I seriously doubt there are tons of people on MySpace stalking "innocent young girls" who just happen to have tramped up profiles and ages 4 years greater than their own.

On Nightline, there was a story of a 12 year old girl who was a drug-addict and attributed it all to MySpace. She claims that MySpace allowed her to easily find drug dealers in her area, as well as older men to have sex with her. Now, at the age of 14, she has been checked into a drug-rehabilitation clinic and has been away from her family for 5 months. Her parents would rather place the blame squarely on the shoulders of MySpace instead of their daughter, who even admitted that at the age of 12, had already tried weed, crack, X, and had slept with numerous guys older than herself...but of course, it wasn't her fault, it was all because of MySpace.

One again, COME THE FUCK ON! When are parents and children going to stop passing the blame and grow up enough to take responsibility for their actions and the actions of their children.. Parent;s, monitor your children online, take some responsibility for YOUR children. Children, if a profile name sounds like something that comes out of a cheap horror movie, like "DARK ANGEL OF DEATH WHO EATS THE BRAINS OF GIRLS"...chances are you DO NOT WANT TO ADD THEM AS A FRIEND. Apparently there is new legislation in Congress now to block MySpace in all public schools and public libraries across the United States. All because little girls want to act grown and don't want to accept the consequences and parents don't want to accept the fact that their "innocent little girls" are posing as 18 year old crack whores trying to buy drugs.

Eventually, if this continues, MySpace could be totally outlawed from the Internet. Restrictions will be put in place in order to make MySpace "safer". I don't know about you, but I use MySpace to keep in touch with my family and friends, use it for messages, and just to have a space that is my own. Just because some children want to act grown, does that mean I may have to eventually give up my MySpace? If you feel the same way I do, please, repost this in your blogs or bulletins, or both as "STOP BLAMING MYSPACE". If enough people post this and spread the word, maybe people will get the picture and stop blaming MySpace for every little thing that their children do wrong. As user of MySpace, we should all repost this and take some sort of action. This is not a chain letter, and nothing will happen to you if you don't repost this in 321654987 seconds. However, of all bulletins you will read today, I am sure that this one is the only one that actually has a point to it. So please, have some common sense, and repost this.


I started using MySpace recently, after the realization that my husband, brother, sister, and several close friends were already on it. I am now saddened by the possibility that something I use to keep in touch with people all over the country might be shut down by the irresponsibility of the majority. I don't really have any deep thoughts on the issue, but I wanted to make sure everyone was aware of what's going on.

5 comments:

Jimmy said...

I couldn't agree more. Personal responsibility is freedom's only salvation.

Unknown said...

That dissapears decades ago. It became acceptable to blame killing people on the fact that mommy didn;t come to your third grade play.

My life sucks because I do. Pure and simple.

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Heather said...

That's bullshit and you know it. Everybody has a choice, no matter what the circumstances. I agree that it's become acceptable to blame your past for your present mistakes, but that doesn't make it right. How you react to the things in your past is a measure of who you are. Look at me. You know some of the shit I had to go through with my family before I left home, and I"m doing okay. I think you are too, and you had it worse than I did. I'm sorry if this sounds like a rant, but it makes me angry to hear you talk about yourself that way.

I'm not even sure what I"m saying. I just woke up. I'll get back to you.

Defiantly Damned said...

None of you suck. I know, I have good taste and I like each of you. ;)

Only when I started taking responsibility for my actions and mistakes did the quality of my life improve. But, there are those in the world that are too busy pointing their finger at and blaming the rest of the world for their problems that they can't take a moment to look inside themselves for a bit of accountability. It's hard for them I suppose.

It's harder for me, though, to listen to those folks blaming the rest of us for their miserable lives.

Heather said...

Yeah, you just want to grab them by the scruff of the neck, shake them and scream, "What's wrong with you?? Don't you realize you're unhappy? Why aren't you making more of an effort to change that, why spend all this energy on blame? What are we supposed to do for you?"

Sometimes it makes me want to cry.